It Is All About YOU

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I had a lengthy conversation with my dear friend M. yesterday about life and other things and I shared with her my obsession with a TV show that I will usually never watch and even mock. I am so embarrassed about the fact that I cannot stop watching it that I haven’t even told my husband about it haha…Well thankfully my friend haven’t even heard about it because she lives in Europe and I in North America so I was somewhat relieved. And then she said to me “the most important thing is to do whatever YOU like and whatever makes YOU happy, and do this things all the time”..This, as it may sounds cliche, really resonated with me and I realised how many thing I do just because I am expected to do them, or because I want to see myself (and want others to see me) in a certain light. For example, when I dress for an event or to go out, I catch myself constructing my outfits considering whit who I will be meeting so I look like them, instead of just dress the way I want to and feel myself. It is funny how we develop certain ideas about fashion and lifestyle and even restrict ourselves with rules (I never wear pink because pink is for “girly” girls and I am “tough” and more “rock and roll”) and so when one day we actually feel like wearing pink we don’t do it because this is our rule. And the other way around, you don’t feel like wearing a mini dress and high heels to go out but all of your friend will dress like that so you can’t just show up wearing jeans and a blazer …

But you know what, nobody really cares, it is all about YOU and what you want and what you makes you feel good. So next time  you are in doubt…listen to the heart 🙂

So here are few things I love but will usually never wear for various reasons (and personal rules)…